It's not me, it's you

March 02, 2015 Venoma 12 Comments

People say I'm one of those people they can tell anything to. And that's true: you can tell me anything. And I won't judge you. Neither will I go to my friends and tell them all about what you told me. Which makes me a perfect person to talk to about all sort of tricky topics. Few days ago I met with some girlfriends and among a lot of topics we discussed, one was particularly interesting - break ups. How to do it, where to do it, when to do it etc. 

And there were also many stories about break ups we experienced through the years. The worst ones, we agreed, were phone break ups. What kind of a person do you have to be to do something that low? Right next to phone break ups are those ''it's not you, it's me'' completely made up break ups. Especially if they come with ''maybe with time/maybe one day we figure it out'' false hope kind of thing. That is so... Mean. It's simply mean. Why is it so hard for people to say ''it's not me, it's you'' and let that person go when it already doesn't fit? It's easier for everybody when people are honest with each other. It might look like it hurts more at the moment when it's happening, but on the long run, it helps the healing process. So lovelies, for the love of God, if you are leaving someone, be subtle but honest with those people. If you were already in a relationship with them, then they deserve that last bit of respect.

Now the fashion part: today I'm showing you something I am planning to wear on my cousins wedding very soon. I got this lovely dress from AmiClubwear just for that occasion and I'm looking forward to that event. Enjoy the pics!

I am wearing:
Hat: Oasap (here)     Clutch: PrettyGuide
Coat: AhaiShopping      Dress: AmiClubwear      Belt: YesFor
Shoes: Tally Weijl        Heels jewelry: AmiClubwear

Share your thoughts lovelies!

Lots of love,


  1. Kombo je wooooow! Pravi vise ovakvih postova!

  2. Fabulous! x

  3. I've breaking up with guys on the phone and I've also used the "it's not you it's me" but it was true I swear!!! I wasn't ready for a relationship!!! :D And I did the breakup on the phone because the guys was an ass either way :D But you're right, I agree, if the person is worth it, find the decency to breakup with them in person and give them your reasoning behind it.
    I love this gorgeous white fluffy coat! *_*

    1. When he's an ass it's all justified xD Lots of love hun :*

  4. Wow ,amazing! Love the fantastic Dress :)


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